Category Archives: Perspectives

Consent is Sexy

I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge! Continue reading

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Big (Black) Cock

It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job. Continue reading

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Real Talks: Massage Parlors

Until there are laws in place to regulate this industry and protect the women in it, I can’t imagine ever supporting it. Continue reading

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Hurts So Good

HER: On a recent weekend trip with our new favourite couple, I found myself on all fours while you knelt behind me, spanking my ass and pussy. I looked around at one point, and you, without anyone near your cock, … Continue reading

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Other Voices, Other Rooms

Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire. Continue reading

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Real Talks: Sex and Drugs

It was a sad epiphany: I realized that an erection was a deeply mysterious involuntary reflex. Continue reading

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The Lifestyle has a Bi(g) Problem

I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice. Continue reading

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Slow to Respond

Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle. Continue reading

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The Darkest Fantasy

Nothing beats the Bible for depravity, and I mean that as a compliment. Continue reading

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A Letter from My Former Self

If it doesn’t overwhelm you, the bittersweet ache of longing can provide the impetus to make difficult changes Continue reading

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