HIM: In our first year of blogging, we’ve published 39 articles on our sexual adventures. We’ve written about threesomes and foursomes; cock size and boob jobs; sex clubs and lifestyle resorts. Which one do you think had the most readers? HER: Probably the one about nude photography. The title is good click bait. HIM: You’re close:…
When life gets in the way: Anxiety and Sex
HER: F. Scott Fitzgerald famously said, “There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.” We’ve spent a lot of time being both the pursued and the pursuing in the sexual journey we’ve been on for the past few years, but these last six months have left us firmly in the last…
Consent is Sexy
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge!
Nude Pool Party
HIM: I’m not much for pools. I think of swimming as a handy skill to have if your canoe tips over, but not the kind of thing a person with options would do for fun. When it came time for us to move in together, however, one of the features near the top of your wishlist was a backyard with…
Big. Black. Cock.
It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job.
Real Talks: Massage Parlors
Until there are laws in place to regulate this industry and protect the women in it, I can’t imagine ever supporting it.
Hurts So Good
HER: On a recent weekend trip with our new favourite couple, I found myself on all fours while you knelt behind me, spanking my ass and pussy. I looked around at one point, and you, without anyone near your cock, were rock hard. Our friends were offering occasional touches, but mainly standing back to enjoy…
Breaking Up is Hard to Do
In the lifestyle, you’ll probably do more breaking up than hooking up. For every couple you say yes to, there will probably be several you have to say no to.
Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open Relationships, and everything in between
Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire.
Real Talks: Erectile Dysfunction Medications
It was a sad epiphany: I realized that an erection was a deeply mysterious involuntary reflex.
Real Talks: Boob Jobs
I actually enjoyed redecorating the bedroom with you – how much more fun would it be working on your new breasts together?
The Softest of Soft-Swaps
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover.