Desire Diaries: A Voyeur’s Paradise

  HIM: If someone asked me to list my sexual interests in order of preference, voyeurism wouldn’t be anywhere near the top. I’ve definitely had some good times watching other people have sex, but overall, I think I get more turned on by what’s going on inside my head than what others are doing around…

Sex on MDMA

So, this was it, that thing that everyone talks about! That amazing space where every touch, every smell, sets off fireworks in your senses.

Swingers Take Italy

Marc Chagall, Nude Over Vitebsk, 1933 HIM: There are two kinds of travellers. Tourists take in all the sights, but never get past the superficial. They remain outsiders. Adventurers connect with real people. They get to see things from an insider’s perspective. We always talk about how much the lifestyle has changed the way we…

Toronto: North America’s Sex Club Capital

If you’re in the market for a sexy vacation, but you haven’t got the budget for a European or Carribean getaway, you might consider something a little different – a tour of the Toronto sex clubs.

Hedo Diaries: An Older Woman

HIM: The other day I accidentally pushed the wrong button on my phone and the forward facing camera clicked on. The image of an old man suddenly appeared on the screen. My immediate thought was that I looked pretty good for a 70 year old. The problem is, I’m just 56. HER: Oh, baby, I’m…

Hedo Diaries: Getting Ditched

One of the things I’ve enjoyed most about the lifestyle since we’ve been involved are the little moments of grace that happen without warning.

A European Swingers’ Paradise

The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.

Hedo Diaries: So Many Firsts

We joined the naked, slippery mass of hedonistic revelers writhing in time to the music. This was our first foam party.