HER: “We are jealous animals.” That’s how Dr Helen Fisher explained her belief that open marriages don’t work when she was interviewed on a Canadian radio documentary called ‘How to Survive the Dating Apocalypse’. She said she would never entertain the idea of an open relationship herself because she is just “too jealous.” Clearly, claiming…
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Unleashing the Swinger Within
Like most people, I can tell when I’m being sold, and I push back instinctively. The key to my change of heart was that I never felt coerced or manipulated.
Consent is Sexy
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge!
Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open Relationships, and everything in between
Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire.
The Softest of Soft-Swaps
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover.
Swinging with Insecurities
Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle.
A European Swingers’ Paradise
The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.
Our First FMF Threesome
Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go.
Our First House Party
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.
Online Dating for Couples
I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual.
What’s Your Number?
I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly.
The Appeal of the Lifestyle Vacation
You have the opportunity to experience some things at Hedo that would be frankly inconceivable at Sandals.