Tag Archives: monogamish

Dealing with Jealousy

Posted on March 29, 2018 by

HER: “We are jealous animals.” That’s how Dr Helen Fisher explained her belief that open marrriages don’t work when she was interviewed on a Canadian radio documentary called ‘How to Survive the Dating Apocalypse’. She said she would never entertain the … Continue reading →

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Unleashing the Swinger Within

Posted on March 1, 2018 by

Like most people, I can tell when I’m being sold, and I push back instinctively. The key to my change of heart was that I never felt coerced or manipulated. Continue reading →

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Consent is Sexy

Posted on August 27, 2016 by

I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge! Continue reading →

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Big. Black. Cock.

Posted on July 2, 2016 by

It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job. Continue reading →

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Breaking Up is Hard to Do

Posted on May 20, 2016 by

In the lifestyle, you’ll probably do more breaking up than hooking up. For every couple you say yes to, there will probably be several you have to say no to. Continue reading →

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Other Voices, Other Rooms: Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open Relationships, and everything in between

Posted on May 11, 2016 by

Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire. Continue reading →

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The Softest of Soft-Swaps

Posted on April 15, 2016 by

It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover. Continue reading →

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The Lifestyle has a Bi(g) Problem

Posted on April 3, 2016 by

I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice. Continue reading →

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Swinging with Insecurities

Posted on March 20, 2016 by

Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle. Continue reading →

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Our First FMF Threesome

Posted on February 23, 2016 by

Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go. Continue reading →

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