Tag Archives: monogamish
Dealing with Jealousy
HER: “We are jealous animals.” That’s how Dr Helen Fisher explained her belief that open marrriages don’t work when she was interviewed on a Canadian radio documentary called ‘How to Survive the Dating Apocalypse’. She said she would never entertain the … Continue reading
Unleashing the Swinger Within
Like most people, I can tell when I’m being sold, and I push back instinctively. The key to my change of heart was that I never felt coerced or manipulated. Continue reading
Consent is Sexy
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge! Continue reading
Big. Black. Cock.
It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job. Continue reading
Breaking Up is Hard to Do
In the lifestyle, you’ll probably do more breaking up than hooking up. For every couple you say yes to, there will probably be several you have to say no to. Continue reading
Other Voices, Other Rooms: Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open, and everything in between
Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire. Continue reading
The Softest of Soft-Swaps
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover. Continue reading
The Lifestyle has a Bi(g) Problem
I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice. Continue reading
Swinging with Insecurities
Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle. Continue reading
Our First FMF Threesome
Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go. Continue reading
