Author Archives: Him and Her
The Instruction Manual: What Turns Us On
I remember thinking that it was pretty bold of him to attempt the rough stuff on our first time together, but he got it just right. It was only later that I realized he had studied up in advance. Continue reading
A Lady’s Advice for Gentlemen in the Lifestyle
Bowing out graciously is preferable to beating a dead horse. She might even be more impressed by your grace under pressure than if you fucked her like the stud you desperately wanted to be. Continue reading
Nude Pool Party III: The Orgy
It was my orgy fantasy come true. Kissing, licking, stroking, squeezing: I might not know whose hands or lips those were, but it didn’t matter because I liked and trusted all those women. Continue reading
Hedo Diaries: Getting Ditched
One of the things I’ve enjoyed most about the lifestyle since we’ve been involved are the little moments of grace that happen without warning. Continue reading
Nude Pool Party II
I leaned over to suck Justin’s cock and, what do you know – there was Brian’s hand guiding it into my mouth! As you know, I love guy-on-guy action, but I don’t think Justin was feeling too enthusiastic. In fact, when I asked him later he said, “I just closed my eyes and tried to pretend that I didn’t know whose hand it was.” Continue reading
Male Bisexuality: An Experiment
HIM: In our first year of blogging, we’ve published 39 articles on our sexual adventures. We’ve written about threesomes and foursomes; cock size and boob jobs; sex clubs and lifestyle resorts. Which one do you think had the most readers? … Continue reading
When life gets in the way: Anxiety and Sex
HER: F. Scott Fitzgerald famously said, “There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.” We’ve spent a lot of time being both the pursued and the pursuing in the sexual journey we’ve been on for the … Continue reading
Consent is Sexy
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge! Continue reading
Nude Pool Party
HIM: I’m not much for pools. I think of swimming as a handy skill to have if your canoe tips over, but not the kind of thing a person with options would do for fun. When it came time for us … Continue reading
Big (Black) Cock
It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job. Continue reading
