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Male Bisexuality: An Experiment
HIM: In our first year of blogging, we’ve published 39 articles on our sexual adventures. We’ve written about threesomes and foursomes; cock size and boob jobs; sex clubs and lifestyle resorts. Which one do you think had the most readers? … Continue reading
Posted in Bisexuality, Relationships, Swapping
Tagged Bisexuality, guy on guy, lifestyle, male bisexuality, Swapping, swingers
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When life gets in the way: Anxiety and Sex
HER: F. Scott Fitzgerald famously said, “There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.” We’ve spent a lot of time being both the pursued and the pursuing in the sexual journey we’ve been on for the … Continue reading
Consent is Sexy
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge! Continue reading
Posted in Perspectives
Tagged lifestyle, marriage, monogamish, monogamish marriage, open marriage, sex, Swapping, swingers, swinging
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Nude Pool Party
HIM: I’m not much for pools. I think of swimming as a handy skill to have if your canoe tips over, but not the kind of thing a person with options would do for fun. When it came time for us … Continue reading
Posted in Clubs/Parties, Swapping
Tagged house party, lifestyle, naked pool party, Swapping, swingers, swinging
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Big (Black) Cock
It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job. Continue reading
Posted in Bodies, Perspectives, Relationships
Tagged bbc, big black cock, Hedonism, lifestyle, monogamish, monogamish marriage, race, sex, swingers, swinging, threesome
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Real Talks: Massage Parlors
Until there are laws in place to regulate this industry and protect the women in it, I can’t imagine ever supporting it. Continue reading
Hurts So Good
HER: On a recent weekend trip with our new favourite couple, I found myself on all fours while you knelt behind me, spanking my ass and pussy. I looked around at one point, and you, without anyone near your cock, … Continue reading
Breaking Up is Hard to Do
In the lifestyle, you’ll probably do more breaking up than hooking up. For every couple you say yes to, there will probably be several you have to say no to. Continue reading
Posted in Relationships
Tagged breaking up, lifestyle, monogamish, sex, swingers, swinging
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Other Voices, Other Rooms
Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire. Continue reading
Posted in Perspectives, Relationships, Swapping
Tagged cuckold, hotwife, marriage, monogamish, open marriage, swingers
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Real Talks: Sex and Drugs
It was a sad epiphany: I realized that an erection was a deeply mysterious involuntary reflex. Continue reading
Posted in Bodies, Perspectives
Tagged androgel, cialis, erectile dysfunction, pharmaceuticals, sex, swingers, viagra
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