Author Archives: Him and Her

About Him and Her

We are a married couple, very much in love, writing about our sexual explorations.

Desire Diaries: A Voyeur’s Paradise

Posted on April 1, 2020

Giulio Romano, THE LOVERS, 1524 HIM: If someone asked me to list my sexual interests in order of preference, voyeurism wouldn’t be anywhere near the top. I’ve definitely had some good times watching other people have sex, but overall, I … Continue reading →

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Sex on MDMA

Posted on March 9, 2020

So, this was it, that thing that everyone talks about! That amazing space where every touch, every smell, sets off fireworks in your senses. Continue reading →

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My First Double Penetration

Posted on February 17, 2020

So there I was on top of you, carefully positioned so he could straddle your legs while still being between mine. It took a few adjustments, but he eventually got in and started thrusting. It was crazy intense! Continue reading →

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The Single Male Experience

Posted on January 25, 2020

I know we did cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy-style, him doing me from behind with me hanging my head over the edge of the bed, spooning, then positioned at the end of the bed so we could both watch him enter me in the mirrored headboard. We both loved that. Continue reading →

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Fear of Fucking

Posted on October 27, 2019

If opening up your relationship is a fantasy you hope to make a reality, you might imagine that having sex with other people is all fun and easy. Just mix three or more horny people together and let the carnal geometry unfold. If only! Continue reading →

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Confessions of an Orgasm Faker

Posted on October 14, 2019

The empathy piece is a big factor for both of us. Maybe we struggle to come from oral simply because it’s hard for us to sit back and greedily enjoy anything. We’re both givers by nature, not takers. Maybe we’re just too nice to be good swingers. Continue reading →

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Playing Separately

Posted on September 27, 2019

Yes, I remember that night. I wanted so badly for him to put his gorgeous cock in me, but I felt like I wasn’t allowed to take that next step until you were in the room. Continue reading →

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Naughty in N’awlins

Posted on August 31, 2019

At one party, I was grinding with a dude who told me to check out his shorts. It felt like he had a baseball bat on his leg! He grabbed my ass and asked how much I could take. I said nine inches was about my max. He said ‘I’m packing at least ten, but I promise to be gentle’. Continue reading →

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Swingers Take Italy

Posted on July 29, 2019

Marc Chagall, Nude Over Vitebsk, 1933 HIM: There are two kinds of travellers. Tourists take in all the sights, but never get past the superficial. They remain outsiders. Adventurers connect with real people. They get to see things from an … Continue reading →

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Anal Sex

Posted on July 12, 2019

Anal sex hasn’t exactly been an obsession of mine. While I think of it as very intimate, the act itself just doesn’t seem worth all the trouble. Every guide to anal sex talks about the importance of going slow, and using lots of lube, because the potential for pain and injury is always present. That seems like a lot of distraction when you’re just trying to have some fun. Continue reading →

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