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Anal Sex
Anal sex hasn’t exactly been an obsession of mine. While I think of it as very intimate, the act itself just doesn’t seem worth all the trouble. Every guide to anal sex talks about the importance of going slow, and using lots of lube, because the potential for pain and injury is always present. That seems like a lot of distraction when you’re just trying to have some fun. Continue reading
Posted in house party, Perspectives, Relationships
Tagged anal sex, lifestyle, parties, sex, taboo
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Breaking The Rules
I, as usual, was the first person naked at our party. I lay on the massage table with two handsome men rubbing me down, one of whom took his cock out so I could suck it while he stroked my breasts. Continue reading
Posted in house party, Relationships
Tagged communication, jealousy, lifestyle, marriage, sex, swingers
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Sex Therapy
It’s alarming for a man when you see a boob and it’s erotically indistinguishable from an elbow. When your wife says, “I’ll do anything you want,” and you can’t actually think of anything that would turn you on, you feel a deep sense of panic. But I wasn’t the only one who was struggling to get sexually motivated. Continue reading
Mind the Gap: Age Differences in the Lifestyle
We’re 57 and 42, for the record. Age has always been something we have to think about a little more than the average couple. If I had been eighteen and you thirty-three when we got together, it would have been scandalous. Fifteen and thirty, and it would have been illegal! Continue reading
The Showdown: Hedonism II vs Desire Pearl
If we aren’t willing to be monogamous sexually, we certainly aren’t going to be faithful to a single resort. Continue reading
Podcast-A-Palooza
What was Podcast-A-Palooza, you ask? Well, it was all about meeting and sharing and learning, to be sure, but it ultimately led to podcasters doing dirty things to other podcasters. Continue reading
Four Crazy Weekends
We’ve been very busy. In fact, last month was one for the record books – four lifestyle events, four weekends in a row. Continue reading
Assault and Harassment: Every Woman’s Story
HER: Like many women, I have watched in horror and awe the events of the last year. The wave of protests and #MeToo stories sparked by the Harvey Weinstein case (which broke almost exactly one year ago) seemed to crash … Continue reading
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Tagged #MeToo, assault, Blasey Ford, harassment, Kavenaugh, Weinstein
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The Hot-Button issue of ‘Hot-Wifing’
Anyone who knows me well knows that I have a hard-on (figuratively) for all things British. So when a very handsome man who lives close by says that he’s an actor from England, well, the next sentence practically writes itself: “Would you like to get together for a drink sometime?” Continue reading
Dick Pics
HIM: We recently watched the movie ‘Weiner’, a documentary directed by Josh Kriegman and Elyse Steinberg. You probably remember the story of Anthony Weiner, the New York state congressman who fell from grace in 2011 after he tweeted a picture … Continue reading
