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Unprotected Sex
The question of unprotected sex is easy for most lifestyle commentators. Just never, ever do it. The risk of an STD is simply too great. But like most easy answers, the reality is somewhat messier. Continue reading
Niagara Hotel Take Over
HER: There we were: three couples on two beds in our poolside hotel room, playing and swapping, with a growing audience of appreciative onlookers watching through the large picture window. It was one of the hottest experiences we have ever … Continue reading
Are Lifestyle Friendships Real Friendships?
HER: A Twitter friend recently posted a comment she found in an online forum. The contributor basically said that lifestyle people are some of the most enjoyable people she has been around. But in the end, these people have only … Continue reading
Hedo Diaries: An Older Woman
HIM: The other day I accidentally pushed the wrong button on my phone and the forward facing camera clicked on. The image of an old man suddenly appeared on the screen. My immediate thought was that I looked pretty good … Continue reading
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Men and Affairs
HIM: In the April 6th edition of The New York Times, I read an impressive article by Karin Jones entitled What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity. First of all, simply writing the piece under her own name … Continue reading
Posted in Perspectives, Relationships
Tagged affairs, lifestyle, marriage, rejection, secrets, self-esteem, sex
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How to Write a Great Online Profile
HER: Ten years ago, people would cringe when they admitted they had met online (if they admitted to it at all). Today, it’s surprising when new couples actually meet the old fashioned way: in person, by accident. With so much … Continue reading
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Tagged lifestyle, online dating, online profile, open marriage, profile photo, sex, swingers, swinging
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Dealing with Jealousy
HER: “We are jealous animals.” That’s how Dr Helen Fisher explained her belief that open marrriages don’t work when she was interviewed on a Canadian radio documentary called ‘How to Survive the Dating Apocalypse’. She said she would never entertain the … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships
Tagged communication, erotic photography, full-swap, Hedonism, hedonism II, jealousy, lifestyle, marriage, MFM, monogamish, monogamish marriage, nude photography, open marriage, photography, sex, Swapping, swingers, swinging, the lifestyle, threesome
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Unleashing the Swinger Within
Like most people, I can tell when I’m being sold, and I push back instinctively. The key to my change of heart was that I never felt coerced or manipulated. Continue reading
Posted in Swapping
Tagged Hedonism, hedonism II, Jamaica, lifestyle, marriage, monogamish, open marriage, sex, sex club, swingers, swinging
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Who Can You Trust?
When something exciting happens to me, my first instinct is to tell someone about it. But what if that amazing thing was that you had eight people in your basement last weekend all tangled up in your first orgy? Who can you tell? Continue reading
The Instruction Manual: What Turns Us On
I remember thinking that it was pretty bold of him to attempt the rough stuff on our first time together, but he got it just right. It was only later that I realized he had studied up in advance. Continue reading
