Author Archives: Him and Her
Mind the Gap: Age Differences in the Lifestyle
We’re 57 and 42, for the record. Age has always been something we have to think about a little more than the average couple. If I had been eighteen and you thirty-three when we got together, it would have been scandalous. Fifteen and thirty, and it would have been illegal! Continue reading
The Showdown: Hedonism II vs Desire Pearl
If we aren’t willing to be monogamous sexually, we certainly aren’t going to be faithful to a single resort. Continue reading
Podcast-A-Palooza
What was Podcast-A-Palooza, you ask? Well, it was all about meeting and sharing and learning, to be sure, but it ultimately led to podcasters doing dirty things to other podcasters. Continue reading
Four Crazy Weekends
We’ve been very busy. In fact, last month was one for the record books – four lifestyle events, four weekends in a row. Continue reading
Assault and Harassment: Every Woman’s Story
HER: Like many women, I have watched in horror and awe the events of the last year. The wave of protests and #MeToo stories sparked by the Harvey Weinstein case (which broke almost exactly one year ago) seemed to crash … Continue reading
The Hot-Button issue of ‘Hot-Wifing’
Anyone who knows me well knows that I have a hard-on (figuratively) for all things British. So when a very handsome man who lives close by says that he’s an actor from England, well, the next sentence practically writes itself: “Would you like to get together for a drink sometime?” Continue reading
Dick Pics
HIM: We recently watched the movie ‘Weiner’, a documentary directed by Josh Kriegman and Elyse Steinberg. You probably remember the story of Anthony Weiner, the New York state congressman who fell from grace in 2011 after he tweeted a picture … Continue reading
Toronto, North America’s Sex Club Capital
If you’re in the market for a sexy vacation, but you haven’t got the budget for a European or Carribean getaway, you might consider something a little different – a tour of the Toronto sex clubs. Continue reading
Sex Party Etiquette
House parties are cool mainly because they are so efficient. It’s like dating at warp speed because you can connect with a number of different couples in a single evening. But to get the most out of it, everyone has to play by the rules. Continue reading
Pool Party IV: Perfection
HER: If you’re a member of the lifestyle community, you may have attended events and fantasized about being the one at the centre of it all. You may even have looked around and thought, ‘If I were the host, I’d … Continue reading
