We’re 57 and 42, for the record. Age has always been something we have to think about a little more than the average couple. If I had been eighteen and you thirty-three when we got together, it would have been scandalous. Fifteen and thirty, and it would have been illegal!
Author: Him and Her
Liam & Kate are a married couple, very much in love, writing honestly and insightfully about their adventures in the world of non-monogamy.
The Showdown: Hedonism vs Desire
If we aren’t willing to be monogamous sexually, we certainly aren’t going to be faithful to a single resort.
Podcast-A-Palooza
What was Podcast-A-Palooza, you ask? Well, it was all about meeting and sharing and learning, to be sure, but it ultimately led to podcasters doing dirty things to other podcasters.
Four Crazy Weekends
We’ve been very busy. In fact, last month was one for the record books – four lifestyle events, four weekends in a row.
Assault and Harassment: Every Woman’s Story
HER: Like many women, I have watched in horror and awe the events of the last year. The wave of protests and #MeToo stories sparked by the Harvey Weinstein case (which broke almost exactly one year ago) seemed to crash over the rocks of the recent Brett Kavenaugh confirmation hearings. Just when we thought things…
The Hot-Button Issue of Hotwifing
Anyone who knows me well knows that I have a hard-on (figuratively) for all things British. So when a very handsome man who lives close by says that he’s an actor from England, well, the next sentence practically writes itself: “Would you like to get together for a drink sometime?”
Sexting
HIM: We recently watched the movie ‘Weiner’, a documentary directed by Josh Kriegman and Elyse Steinberg. You probably remember the story of Anthony Weiner, the New York state congressman who fell from grace in 2011 after sexting a picture of his bulging underwear to a woman who was not his wife. Two years after that…
Toronto: North America’s Sex Club Capital
If you’re in the market for a sexy vacation, but you haven’t got the budget for a European or Carribean getaway, you might consider something a little different – a tour of the Toronto sex clubs.
Sex Party Etiquette
House parties are cool mainly because they are so efficient. It’s like dating at warp speed because you can connect with a number of different couples in a single evening. But to get the most out of it, everyone has to play by the rules.
Nude Pool Party IV: Perfection
HER: If you’re a member of the lifestyle community, you may have attended a sexy pool party and fantasized about being the one at the centre of it all. You may even have looked around and thought, ‘If I were the host, I’d do it better’. Well, we were arrogant enough to believe that…
Unprotected Sex
The question of unprotected sex is easy for most lifestyle commentators. Just never, ever do it. The risk of an STD is simply too great. But like most easy answers, the reality is somewhat messier.
Niagara Hotel Take Over
HER: There we were: three couples on two beds in our poolside hotel room, playing and swapping, with a growing audience of appreciative onlookers watching through the large picture window. It was one of the hottest experiences we have ever had in the lifestyle, and definitely the highlight of our weekend in Niagara Falls. Him…