Like most people, I can tell when I’m being sold, and I push back instinctively. The key to my change of heart was that I never felt coerced or manipulated.
I told you what was happening, and you bolted up. “Did you ask her if you could do that?” you demanded, more angry than I’ve ever seen you. I was a little worried that you’d start a fight, and I wasn’t sure you’d win. That guy was huge!
Some couples see a long term relationship as inherently susceptible to waning desire.
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover.
I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice.
Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle.
The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.
If it doesn’t overwhelm you, the bittersweet ache of longing can provide the impetus to make difficult changes
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.
I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual.