Tag Archives: marriage

A European Swingers’ Paradise

The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door. Continue reading

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A Letter from My Former Self

If it doesn’t overwhelm you, the bittersweet ache of longing can provide the impetus to make difficult changes Continue reading

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The House Party That Never Was

I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great. Continue reading

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Online Dating for Couples

I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual. Continue reading

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What’s Your Number?

I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly. Continue reading

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The Appeal of the Lifestyle Vacation

You have the opportunity to experience some things at Hedo that would be frankly inconceivable at Sandals. Continue reading

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The Sex-Starved Marriage

HER: While surfing Twitter, I came across a TED Talk by Michele Weiner-Davis. In her presentation, she talks about what happens when people’s sex drives are unequally matched. She seemed to so perfectly describe your previous situation in her video ‘The Sex-Starved … Continue reading

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The Monogamish Marriage

HER: It doesn’t take a genius to recognize that the institution of marriage is in crisis. For years now, divorce rates have been rising, marriage rates declining, and as many as 70% of unions have experienced infidelity … whether both … Continue reading

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