Tag Archives: swinging

The Lifestyle has a Bi(g) Problem

Posted on April 3, 2016 by

I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice. Continue reading →

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Swinging with Insecurities

Posted on March 20, 2016 by

Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle. Continue reading →

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A European Swingers’ Paradise

Posted on March 16, 2016 by

The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door. Continue reading →

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Finally, Our First Full-Swap

Posted on March 3, 2016 by

HIM: Swapping partners wasn’t part of any master plan as we set out on our great sexual adventure. I guess the truth was that we had no particular destination in mind, and that was probably a good thing. We simply … Continue reading →

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Our First FMF Threesome

Posted on February 23, 2016 by

Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go. Continue reading →

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The House Party That Never Was

Posted on February 17, 2016 by

I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great. Continue reading →

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Online Dating for Couples

Posted on February 15, 2016 by

I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual. Continue reading →

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Hedo Diaries: So Many Firsts

Posted on February 11, 2016 by

We joined the naked, slippery mass of hedonistic revelers writhing in time to the music. This was our first foam party. Continue reading →

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What’s Your Number?

Posted on February 9, 2016 by

I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly. Continue reading →

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Hedo Diaries: A One-Afternoon Stand

Posted on February 3, 2016 by

At one point she cooed, “You’re so gentle”. At first I thought it was a compliment, but then I started to think otherwise. Continue reading →

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