HIM: I’m not much for pools. I think of swimming as a handy skill to have if your canoe tips over, but not the kind of thing a person with options would do for fun. When it came time for us to move in together, however, one of the features near the top of your wishlist was a backyard with…
It was a great first date. He was tall, handsome and an easy conversationalist with an interesting job.
In the lifestyle, you’ll probably do more breaking up than hooking up. For every couple you say yes to, there will probably be several you have to say no to.
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover.
I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice.
Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle.
The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.
HIM: Swapping partners wasn’t part of any master plan as we set out on our great sexual adventure. I guess the truth was that we had no particular destination in mind, and that was probably a good thing. We simply put one foot in front of the other — together — just to see where…
Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go.
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.