If it doesn’t overwhelm you, the bittersweet ache of longing can provide the impetus to make difficult changes
Month: February 2016
Our First FMF Threesome
Our first threesome together was my first, but it wasn’t yours. You came to our relationship with a friend who was good to go.
Our First House Party
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.
Online Dating for Couples
I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual.
Hedo Diaries: So Many Firsts
We joined the naked, slippery mass of hedonistic revelers writhing in time to the music. This was our first foam party.
What’s Your Number?
I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly.
Naked Pictures
You’re beautiful, you’re game for anything, and I think you have a certain grace that the camera likes.
Hedo Diaries: A One-Afternoon Stand
At one point she cooed, “You’re so gentle”. At first I thought it was a compliment, but then I started to think otherwise.
Keeping Secrets
HER: We had a party at our house recently where, in a haze of whisky-laced apple cider and white wine, I told my siblings that we had tried sex clubs and vacationed at Hedonism. They all had the same conservative, religious upbringing I did, but, like me, they’re all very sexual and pretty liberal in their views. …
Manscaping
HER: Before our last trip to Jamaica, I went for a session of laser hair removal. It was a thoughtful Christmas gift from you. You knew I hated the red bikini bumps, and the last time I had the area waxed, it was so painful I swore I’d never do it again. Lasers, you thought, might…
The Greatest Threesome in the History of the World
HIM: When we were writing our article ‘The Quantified Sex Life’ a couple of weeks ago, I got caught up reading through the notes section of the sex log I keep. Usually I just jot down a sentence or two for each entry to help my memory, though occasionally I will try to capture what…
Our MFM Experiment: Getting it Right
HIM: Six weeks after our disastrous first experience with another man, we got a text from Derek saying he had some ideas about how we could do things differently if we wanted to try again. I met him for lunch to discuss them, and he suggested that we take some pictures of you as an…